ADHD (Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder)

What is ADHD?

ADHD stands for Attention-Deficit/Hyperactivity Disorder. It's a brain-based condition that affects how you pay attention, control impulses, and regulate energy levels. If you or your child has ADHD, you're not alone – it affects approximately 11.4% of children and about 6% of adults in the United States.

Think of ADHD as having a brain that's wired a bit differently. This different wiring affects the brain's "command center" (the prefrontal cortex), making it harder to filter distractions, organize tasks, manage time, and control impulses.

The good news? Once diagnosed, ADHD is highly manageable with the right support. Many people with ADHD lead successful, fulfilling lives and even find that certain aspects of their ADHD brain can be strengths in the right environment.

Table of Contents

  • What is ADHD?

  • Types of ADHD

  • Symptoms in Children

  • Symptoms in Adults

  • Symptoms in Girls/Women

  • Getting Diagnosed

  • Treatment Options

    • Medication

    • Therapy and Counselling

    • Lifestyle Strategies

  • References

Types of ADHD

There are three main types of ADHD, and knowing which type you or your child has can help guide treatment decisions:

Predominantly Inattentive ADHD:

This type used to be called ADD. If you have inattentive ADHD, you might:

  • Often miss details or make careless mistakes

  • Struggle to stay focused during conversations or tasks

  • Appear not to listen when spoken to directly

  • Have trouble following through on instructions or finishing tasks

  • Often lose items necessary for tasks or activities

  • Become easily distracted by unrelated thoughts or stimuli

  • Forget daily activities like chores, errands, or appointments

This type is often overlooked because symptoms aren't as visible as hyperactivity. It's more common in girls and women and can fly under the radar for years, sometimes even into adulthood.

Predominantly Hyperactive-Impulsive ADHD:

With this type, you might:

  • Fidget, tap hands or feet, or squirm in your seat

  • Leave your seat when staying seated is expected

  • Feel restless or "driven by a motor"

  • Talk excessively

  • Blurt out answers before questions are completed

  • Have trouble waiting your turn

  • Interrupt or intrude on others' conversations or activities

This type is more easily spotted, especially in children, because the behaviors are more noticeable to others.

Combined ADHD:

This is the most common type and includes symptoms from both categories above. If you have combined type, you experience significant issues with both attention and hyperactivity/impulsivity.

Signs and Symptoms

ADHD looks different in everyone, and symptoms can change throughout your life. Here's how ADHD typically shows up in different age groups:

Symptoms in Children

Children with ADHD aren't just "being kids" or "acting out." Their symptoms are more severe, happen more often, and significantly impact their daily life. Common signs include:

At Home:

  • Difficulty following multi-step directions

  • Trouble sitting through meals

  • Constantly on the move

  • Forgetting chores or homework

  • Becoming easily frustrated

  • Struggling with transitions between activities

  • Requiring more supervision than peers their age

At School:

  • Trouble staying seated or waiting their turn

  • Making careless mistakes in schoolwork

  • Difficulty organizing materials and assignments

  • Frequently losing school supplies or homework

  • Struggling to maintain focus during lessons

  • Blurting out answers or interrupting others

  • Having trouble remembering instructions

Socially:

  • Interrupting conversations or games

  • Difficulty picking up on social cues

  • Acting impulsively without considering consequences

  • Struggling with turn-taking in games

  • Becoming easily upset when losing or not getting their way

If you notice these patterns in your child, especially if they're causing problems in multiple settings (home, school, and social situations), it may be time to consult with a healthcare provider.

Symptoms in Girls/Women

ADHD presents uniquely in females and often goes unrecognized because it doesn't match the stereotypical hyperactive boy model. Here's how ADHD typically manifests in women and girls:

Internal Emotional Struggles:

  • Persistent anxiety that seems disproportionate to circumstances

  • Overwhelming feelings of being "not good enough" despite achievements

  • Intense sensitivity to rejection or criticism from others

  • Being labeled "too emotional" or "too sensitive"

  • Exhaustion from constantly working to hide struggles

  • Shame spiral when unable to complete seemingly simple tasks

  • Feeling fundamentally flawed or broken without understanding why

  • Perfectionism as a coping mechanism to avoid criticism

Academic and Career Impacts:

  • Spending three times longer on assignments than peers

  • Working late into the night to meet deadlines others complete easily

  • Being seen as "spacey" or "ditzy" despite high intelligence

  • Accomplishing goals through last-minute panic and adrenaline

  • Creating elaborate systems that eventually collapse

  • Excelling in areas of interest but struggling inexplicably in others

  • Appearing lazy or unmotivated when actually experiencing paralysis

  • Career choices below intellectual capabilities due to overwhelm

Daily Life Challenges:

  • Maintaining a façade of organization while chaos reigns behind closed doors

  • Chronic tardiness despite genuine efforts to be on time

  • Finances in disarray despite adequate income

  • Spending hours looking for misplaced essential items

  • Starting ambitious projects that remain permanently unfinished

  • Difficulty maintaining basic self-care routines consistently

  • Decision paralysis in grocery stores or when making minor choices

  • Intense frustration when routines are disrupted

Social and Relationship Difficulties:

  • Being the "listener" in friendships to hide attention difficulties

  • Exhaustion from social events that require sustained attention

  • Talking too much when nervous or excited, then ruminating about it later

  • Agreeing to commitments, then feeling overwhelmed and unable to follow through

  • Intense relationships that burn bright then burn out

  • Apologizing constantly for perceived failures and inadequacies

  • Being viewed as unreliable despite best intentions

  • Difficulty maintaining friendships requiring consistent communication

Hormone-Related Fluctuations:

  • ADHD symptoms that worsen dramatically before menstruation

  • Increased anxiety and inability to cope during hormonal transitions

  • Inconsistent performance that cycles with hormonal changes

  • Postpartum period marked by significant executive function deterioration

  • Perimenopausal cognitive changes that are more severe than expected

Many women aren't diagnosed until adulthood after struggling silently for years, often after being treated unsuccessfully for anxiety or depression. The revelation that ADHD explains their lifelong struggles often brings both grief for lost opportunities and profound relief in finally understanding their experiences.

Symptoms in Adults

Adult ADHD can look quite different from childhood ADHD. Many adults with ADHD have learned to mask or compensate for their symptoms, but this often comes at a cost of tremendous mental effort and stress. Common signs include:

At Work:

  • Missing deadlines or details despite intelligence and capability

  • Trouble prioritizing tasks or estimating how long they'll take

  • Starting many projects but rarely finishing them

  • Procrastinating, especially on complex or tedious tasks

  • Struggling to maintain focus during meetings

  • Difficulty organizing physical and digital information

  • Feeling overwhelmed by tasks others seem to handle easily

At Home:

  • Chronic disorganization (piles of mail, laundry, papers)

  • Frequent lateness and poor time management

  • Forgetting important events or appointments

  • Impulsive spending or decision-making

  • Difficulty maintaining consistent routines

  • Starting household projects but leaving them unfinished

  • Losing important items like keys, wallets, or phones

In Relationships:

  • Seeming inattentive during conversations

  • Forgetting important details partners have shared

  • Making impulsive comments you later regret

  • Struggling to complete your share of household responsibilities

  • Feeling easily overwhelmed or irritated

  • Having difficulty regulating emotions

If these patterns have been present since childhood and affect multiple areas of your life, you might want to consider an ADHD assessment.

Getting Diagnosed

Getting an accurate ADHD diagnosis is the first step toward effective management. Here's what to expect from the diagnostic process:

For Children:

  1. Initial Screening: Your child's pediatrician may use rating scales and questionnaires to assess symptoms.

  2. Comprehensive Evaluation: This typically includes:

    • Detailed interviews about your child's development and behavior

    • Rating scales completed by parents and teachers

    • Direct observation of your child

    • Medical examination to rule out other causes

  3. Ruling Out Alternatives: The doctor will consider whether symptoms might be caused by learning disorders, anxiety, sleep problems, or other conditions.

For Adults:

  1. Self-Assessment: You might start with an online screening tool, but remember these aren't diagnostic.

  2. Professional Evaluation: This usually involves:

    • Detailed history of current and childhood symptoms

    • Standardized assessment tools

    • Interview about how symptoms affect your daily functioning

    • Consideration of other possible conditions

  3. Collateral Information: Information from partners, parents, or close friends about your behavior patterns can be helpful.

Who Can Diagnose ADHD?

Several types of professionals can diagnose ADHD:

  • Psychiatrists

  • Psychologists

  • Neurologists

  • Some primary care physicians with ADHD expertise

  • Nurse practitioners with specialized training

For the most comprehensive assessment, look for a provider with specific experience diagnosing ADHD, particularly in your age group.

Treatment Options

ADHD treatment works best when tailored to your unique needs and circumstances. Most effective approaches combine several strategies:

  • Medication

Medication is one of the most effective treatments for ADHD, reducing symptoms in about 70-80% of people who try it. Options include:

Stimulant Medications:

  • Methylphenidate-based medications (Ritalin, Concerta, Focalin)

  • Amphetamine-based medications (Adderall, Vyvanse, Dexedrine)

These work by increasing dopamine and norepinephrine in the brain, improving attention and reducing hyperactivity. They're available in various formulations, including immediate-release (lasting 4-6 hours) and extended-release (lasting 8-12+ hours).

Non-Stimulant Medications:

  • Atomoxetine (Strattera)

  • Guanfacine (Intuniv)

  • Clonidine (Kapvay)

  • Viloxazine (Qelbree)

These might be recommended if stimulants cause unpleasant side effects, aren't effective, or when there are concerns about stimulant use.

Finding the right medication and dosage often requires some trial and error. Work closely with your healthcare provider to monitor effects and adjust as needed.

  • Therapy and Counseling

Several therapeutic approaches can help manage ADHD symptoms and develop coping strategies:

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT): Helps you identify and change negative thought patterns and develop practical skills for managing ADHD challenges. CBT can be particularly helpful for addressing the frustration, low self-esteem, and negative self-talk that often accompany ADHD.

ADHD Coaching: Coaches provide practical support for organization, time management, and goal-setting. Unlike therapy, coaching focuses primarily on present challenges and future goals rather than past experiences.

Parent Training: For parents of children with ADHD, structured training programs teach effective behavior management techniques and ways to support your child's development.

Family Therapy: Can help address relationship difficulties that often develop when a family member has ADHD, improving communication and understanding.

  • Lifestyle Strategies

Everyday habits can significantly impact ADHD symptoms:

Exercise: Regular physical activity, especially aerobic exercise, can improve attention and reduce hyperactivity and impulsivity. Even short movement breaks (like a brisk 10-minute walk) can temporarily boost focus.

Sleep Hygiene: People with ADHD often struggle with sleep, which worsens symptoms. Establishing consistent sleep routines, limiting screen time before bed, and creating a calm sleep environment can help.

Nutrition: While no special diet cures ADHD, regular, balanced meals help maintain stable energy and focus. Some people find reducing processed foods and artificial additives helpful, though research results are mixed.

Organizational Systems: External systems for organization reduce the cognitive load of managing details:

  • Digital calendars with reminders

  • Task management apps

  • Visual schedules

  • Labeled storage systems

  • Routines and checklists for recurring tasks

Environment Modifications: Setting up your physical environment to support focus can make a big difference:

  • Reducing visual clutter

  • Using noise-canceling headphones

  • Creating dedicated spaces for different activities

  • Placing visual reminders where you'll see them

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